There was a point in my life when I internalized everything. In fact I spent twenty-five married years biting my tongue because I thought that was the way a wife was supposed to behave.
Kay spent twenty years with an overbearing, manipulative woman she was afraid would walk away from her if she verbalized what she really felt. In the end, she lost her anyway.
An extension of our same sex relationship has been the fertile environment we made for each other: nurturing support, trust and understanding that provided freedom to feel, think and express ourselves. Our bitching and growling at one another resulted in the discovery of other personae living inside our bodies who have struggled for years to be heard. That is what women can do for women.
Volatility needs to exist in a good relationship to keep it healthy. After all, the beauty of a woman is in the passion she shows.
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